Failed at life is what we feel like for those who have tried their hardest. Surprisingly those who see themselves this way are not inadequate people. Many times, they are very gifted and emotionally deep with much to offer back to Humankind. Moreover, they often have tried harder and failed more deeply than those around them. Their failure makes them stand out more to themselves as they compare how they feel to how successful they see others are. At his point that is an inaccurate comparison.
If that is the case then why would supposedly more gifted people have difficulty accomplishing success that simpler, more shallow character people seem to achieve with ease. That does not make sense. It does make sense if you look at a more revealing wider perspective. Let us look at your life path from how an optical satellite from outer space in a stationary orbit clearly sees you. You are comparing yourself to others and to your expectations after much effort that has failed. However, comparison to others and life in general at this point are not that accurate and revealing. You are not like others, generally only but specifically you and your life path are as different as possible from them and theirs.
Above we mentioned that those who feel like they failed at life are almost always very gifted and emotionally deep with much to offer Humankind. The mystery is why do gifted people take longer when the ungifted and shallow people readily succeed in finding their place. That answer is easy if you look at yourself from the satellite’s perspective looking at you. First, gifted people must find and develop their gifts, which simpler and more shallow people do not have to find or develop. Wisdom is always part of this giftedness, and that is learned from patterns seen in life. Those patterns take years to see and from which to learn. Shallow and lesser character people do not see these higher things because they do not care to see them. We call this the reptile in the desert setting. If you were a reptile or a cactus in the desert, then you can live just fine and enjoy it. You are not a reptile in the desert, and you do not have thorns so you must not be a cactus either.
My guess is you are more like an orchid or another colorful blooming plant more suited to living in a tropical setting like Florida or Hawaii. This means part of our answer is you have not been placed in the right setting yet to succeed at life. That is encouraging because that means the right place for you to bloom and bear fruit is out there in your future somewhere. Your future in your life path holds it. Belief that your place exists for you to find will help you find it. Once visualized and believed in, it will help bring it to you.
We do not come into this world as just a random person floating in a sea of chaos. We come into this world with a purpose, a plan for our lives. In our lives there are the settings already laid out to experience to teach us and prepare us. Once taught then in our final settings we can bloom and thrive as flowers. There we can give back to life the gifts that life has given to us in the first place.
There are unlimited events and settings you could have lived through that have brought you to the conclusion of being a failure as a person. We cannot list all the arguments for all those settings, we can only give general advice that will apply to your situation. First, you have been created as a person with a valuable gift at something. On many occasions our gifts require long periods of living in a hostile setting. This is often because someone in the same setting needs your strength to make it through themselves. They will not make it without your presence in their lives. It also can be because the setting that is making you see yourself as a failure is a setting you can change in the future for others that will come after you into the same setting.
The final chapter in your book will include how you finally saw yourself as a success, and how proud you became of yourself in what you contributed to others. Everyone’s final chapter will always be different, but the content will always be the same. It will include writing about how you looked more closely at yourself from a bigger perspective, like the satellite view of you we mentioned earlier. You will share how you saw yourself more than a person, you saw you are part of a plan, in a life path, with a gift to give Humankind. Everything about you has a purpose. You will look at your gifts, talent or passion and began again acting on it. This will help you create the setting at last where you will not fail. We all write our books, not necessarily with literary means, but with deeds, choices, actions and spoken words. We cannot wait to see what your end of story will be. And we are sure it will a classical masterpiece.
Just for the record, this is an emotional and spiritual encouragement ministry. We are selling nothing here and are not at the present time even set up to take donations, and probably never will. Your healed life is our reward enough, and we are very pleased with that. If you want to, please share your strength with others in your future so our nurturing can live on.