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Feeling so lost and alone is an overwhelming experience that probably has one big cause: the lack of quality interaction with others. We would think that with the proliferation of many avenues of communication, that quality interaction for the individual would go up. That is the fact that those with vested interests in the social media world want you to believe. They want you to be an audience for their advertisements. The truth is exactly the opposite. There are also other recently introduced players that have made communication even more difficult, they are artificial intelligence and artificial wisdom. Put simply when one writes something, a program rewrites it for the reader, not for the one writing it. These applications are nothing more than cloaks hiding reality. They are best at creating false images in video where nothing can be believed anymore. Now let us get back to the problem of feeling alone even around others.
In our original social structure, everyone interacted socially with face-to-face in-person interaction. This was a time around a century ago when communication and interaction was concrete, local, and very basic and limited. We met others in our world. The good side of things then was it was very emotionally solid, and deep relationships happened readily. As far as the individual was concerned, not only could one find deep relationships with their own kind, they also could easily learn who they themselves are because personal feedback from others gave a sense of personhood back to the individual.
Then came the newspaper, telephone, and television, which helped. Now we could use these avenues to communicate and interact with others and be connected to the outside world even deeper. Even with that it was still face to face and personal. At this point things went south. With the introduction of the computer and its marriage to a personal mobile phone, now there are a million ways to communicate to everyone about everything. Now there is no face-to-face interaction because communication between people is instantaneous. What this has done has reduced the value of the other person to nothing! If you have 2500 friends on Facebook and are following 1800 people in another social media, what is the value of any of those friends and people to you? And what is your value to them? How much do you know them? With so much interaction, there can be no nurturing, no bonding, no personal closeness possible anymore. Feeling alone but not alone is what you are. Communication is plentiful, but worthless. Human value and emotional need do not get communicated.
There is another poisoning side to this digital world, and that is it kills the social skills we must learn as children to build relationships in adulthood. We lose our ability to feel ourselves, be who we truly are, and then share our unique self with others to make the relationships we need. The only answer is to not use the cell phone and computer to socialize. Using them for work, communication and research is fine. Having any social interaction with them is poisoning.
Spiritually the Primal Scene grows humans, the digital world for social reasons poisons humans. It denies us full interaction for nurturing. That is exactly what is happening to you now. What happens to flightless birds? Most go extinct. Feeling alone all the time is because the level of social interaction is not personal and faced to face enough. The Primal Scene is a face mirroring a face. The face doing the mirroring is the Nurturing One, such as your mother was, then by older loving relatives, and later close friends as you grew. The one needing mirroring is yourself in your spiritual infancy. This Primal Scene is the setting for all human nurturement and is the basis of all relationships. From experiences within this Primal Scene setting comes all our sense of self, self-esteem and pride in our individuality of every person on earth.
Feeling alone with people around is caused by you not getting enough feedback of who you are as a unique person. When is the last time someone in social media ever recognized you for being sympathetic, artistic and a gifted person in some area? Could your mother have nurtured you if your only connection was with social media or computer screen? We need real face-to-face touch and being touched interaction to connect with others and to feel ourselves as well.
Time, attention and personal presence are the only three things which create bonds in Humankind. Giving these to others will create the spiritual bonds you both need. When we interact with social media of any type, it allows us to remain invisible. We do not have to share any part of ourselves. The poisoning part of that is we lose our ability to share who we are with others. We need to change the environment face-to-face, to open ourselves up to others so they can see what a beautiful unique person we are. Begin practicing the Primal Scene and our Primal Statement, “Hello world, this is me, I am about my own business, I am the reason for whence I have come.”
Just for the record, this is an emotional and spiritual encouragement ministry. We are selling nothing here and are not at the present time even set up to take donations, and probably never will. Your healed life is our reward enough, and we are very pleased with that. If you want to, please share your strength with others in your future so our nurturing can live on.